Heaven....

Sunday, January 25, 2009

:: In Therapy ::

I was in therapy again yesterday. Retail therapy. *snicker* Music therapy, dance therapy, substance therapy...so many reasons to celebrate. Sometimes keeping a set of priorities will find you narrowing your mind in the attempt to focus completely on said priorities. Concentrating on the minute details on how things should be done makes you forget how the big picture is like. Obsessing over every word that was said, every action that was made and every event that occurred, makes you feel silly once you take a step back and realise that is but one iota of your entire existence and that it doesn't really matter because the next mistake is waiting to happen and you are definitely not going to pile them one on top of the other so you might as well let it go now. I have no need to convince myself of how I am feeling at the moment, because I know, without a shadow of a doubt, I am satisfied.

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Saturday, January 24, 2009

:: Stardust ::

And now the purple dusk of twilight time
Steals across the meadows of my heart
High up in the sky the little stars climb
Always reminding me that were apart

Sometimes I wonder why I spend
The lonely nights
Dreaming of a song
The melody haunts my reverie
And I am once again with you
When our love was new, and each kiss an inspiration
But that was long ago, and now my consolation
Is in the stardust of a song.
Beside the garden wall, when stars are bright
You are in my arms
The nightingale tells his fairy tale
Of paradise where roses grew

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7:52 AM
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Friday, January 23, 2009

:: Finding your comfort zone...and staying in it? ::

Man is a complex creature. Or is he? I personally think it isn't too hard to understand the wills and wants of a person if u keep a few simple rules in mind. Basically, all humans are created equal, whether we admit it or not. It's just the way we project or reel in any resource to achieve what we desire. Then there's the inner voice/conscience. In this, I believe there is no perfect balance. You are either meaner than you are nice or vice versa. Seriously. Here's how you can probably tell which one dominates. If someone hurts you, do you immediately think of ways to harm the person in return? Then you're probably more deceitful than you are forgiving. That's pretty elementary. But then again, there's the issue of does the feeling of guilt override the harmful intent soon thereafter? If it doesn't, then you're beyond irredeemable. And that's only my opinion. Worse still, if you happen to be in a profession where people's lives are in your hands and a simple push can find you drawing a lethal drug dose or withdrawing adequate treatment just to get even with a helpless individual, then you should not even be within a 100km radius from the next person.

Would you keep a worn out old couch, weathered by time but so comfortable and familiar or have a sleek new designer sofa that you know will get stolen if your house was broken in?
Another thing that comes to mind is man's need for change. Nature is designed in such a way that change is necessary but not necessarily easily adaptable. How many of us have found ourselves stuck in the same routine and situation time and time again that it fails to have any meaning to us anymore? That the people who have been beside us for years have begun to pale in comparison to those we have just met? How can it be that we can abandon those who have stuck with us through thick and thin for someone so temporary yet seem so exciting in the short time that we have known them? And despite that, we find it so hard to accept the change that at any slight hint of trouble or rejection, we leave...only to return to our trusty couch. Will we settle for second best with all the inadequacies that have failed to satisfy us over the years or take a chance to find one that can fulfill said inadequacies? Personally, it is a hard decision to make to leave a situation so familiar, predictable, safe and secure only to jump into something so uncertain and something that leaves us so open and vulnerable. How many of us are content to be cosily nestled in our comfort zone and how many of us are ready to take up a challenge?

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3:13 AM
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Friday, January 16, 2009

:: Revival ::

re.viv.al \ri-ˈvī-vəl\1: an act or instance of reviving : the state of being revived: as a: renewed attention to or interest in something b: a new presentation or publication of something old

Reactivation, rebirth, renaissance, renascence, renewal, resurgence, resurrection, resuscitation, revitalisation, revivification

Change. All of life as I know it is changing. At this juncture, I feel it is as apt a time as any for a revival of this long-forgotten blog and a renewal of my faith and hope in life; that things can finally go right and happiness is but a thought away and not a fulfillment of idealistic dreams and near-unattainable goals. Here's to a more simplistic view of life and many lessons in letting go...only for continuous renewal and rebirth.

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6:10 PM
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:: The Fall of Man ::

"Accuse not nature, she hath done her part;
Do thou but thine, and be not diffident
Of wisdom, she deserts thee not, if thou
Dismiss not her, when most thou needest her nigh,
By attributing overmuch to things
Less excellent, as thou thyself perceivest"
John Milton

"I hold it true,what'er befall;
I feel it, when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all."
Alfred Lord Tennyson

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5:21 PM
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:: A Belated New Year Post ::

“Ring out the old, ring in the new, Ring, happy bells, across the snow: The year is going, let him go; Ring out the false, ring in the true”
Alfred Lord Tennyson

Belated indeed. So belated that I have forgotten most of what I have wanted to put in writing...but at least still have a vague idea of the gist of it.

With the new year came a new realisation; but first, the thought that led to that realisation...as everyone sobered up post-Christmas celebration, new resolutions and promises were made and proudly published on every conceivable (online) medium available; Facebook, MSN personal messages, blogs etc. Which made me think...why has it been such a long time since I had last made my own New Year resolutions? Thinking back, I honestly can't remember the last time I made any...even if I did, it would have been the same one year after year; study more, pray more, go to church even more...then came the realisation I'm no longer a student. Just a year ago, we were all still enjoying the privileges of being a medical student; freedom to be a little irresponsible, a little lazy and best of all, a little playful. It's still so hard to believe that we've made that transition into working life so soon and the five years seem to have just slipped from our grasp (regrettably) so quickly. So what changes? New goals, new resolutions, a different focus in life. The career path is no longer looming ahead of us, we have already started our journey, like it or not. Even on the domestic front, those with stable relationships are contemplating marriage.

Personally, I do not believe in making resolutions. In the viewpoint of a procrastinator, short-term goals seem to be a more effective way of getting things done. The very thought of having a whole year to fulfill your resolutions just gives you a good excuse to keep putting things off for 'later'. Plus, the benefit of having short-term goals is that you can keep on changing them as you progress, thus achieving more in the same amount of time. It's like giving yourself a whole day to climb up a step as opposed to giving yourself a minute to climb that step and another to climb the next one. And the whole beauty of this is that you can even modify your goal to suit the situation. Thus begins another year without resolutions, long-term goals or expectations...here's to living in the here and now!

"Good resolutions are simply checks that men draw on a bank where they have no account."
Oscar Wilde

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